A post to Mister Sister’s Facebook page said: “Sadly, we’ve had donations rejected from Pride Center of Vermont and Vermont People With AIDS Coalition due to our name.” On May 10, owner Craig McGaughan said he had not donated to the Pride Center since controversy over the bar’s name erupted and was referring to advocacy group’s March 3 statement that they would reject donations from any place with hate speech as its name.
The owner of a gay bar in Vermont has abandoned the name Mister Sister and is seeking forgiveness after three months of bitter controversy.
The new name of the Winooski area’s only gay bar, which opened in March, will be The Bridge Club.
“I hope everyone finds the humor in going to ‘The Bridge Club’ to party, sees the nod to the historic Winooski Bridge and recognizes the camaraderie and necessity in building bridges,” owner Craig McGaughan wrote on Facebook.
“My wish is that we can all forgive and move forward,” McGaughan continued. “Nothing good came from the fighting. No one won here.”
The name Mister Sister, which McGaughan initially described as inclusive, sparked controversy because some people viewed the term as a slur against transgender people.
McGaughan changed his mind, according to a post on The Bridge Club page, after a transgender woman wrote a “kind letter” showing that people who claimed to support Mister Sister were “using public forums to create hate toward the trans community.”
“I am a trans ally and when faced with the fact that this issue has created a platform for trans people to be blatantly abused, I had to act,” McGaughan wrote.
“I realize now that I mistakenly listened to the fight rather than the pain,” McGaughan added.
The Pride Center of Vermont asked McGaughan to…