Nashville mayor’s son mourned after apparent drug overdose

NASHVILLE, Tenn. (AP) — Days after his 22-year-old son died of an apparent drug overdose, the husband of Nashville’s mayor was adamant that their son’s death doesn’t define the life of a young man who was warm, sensitive, tolerant and inquisitive.

Bruce Barry gave an energetic eulogy for his son, Max Barry, in front of more than 550 friends, family members and dignitaries Tuesday at The Belcourt Theatre, where many attendees spilled into a second room to watch the memorial service on a movie screen. Mayor Megan Barry didn’t give a speech during the service.

Max Barry died Saturday night near Denver. Toxicology results from an autopsy aren’t expected for about three weeks, said Dan Pruett, Jefferson County, Colorado chief deputy coroner.

Bruce Barry took the stage at the theatre unannounced, pulled out a baseball cap and put it on backward like his son would. He drew laughter and tears with his stories of Max, who he said loved music, comedy, adventure — and breakfast. He wasn’t competitive in youth sports, and would rather “meet” the other team than “beat” them, Bruce Barry said.

“The point I really want to make here is that the circumstances last Saturday in Denver tell the story of his death, and not the story of his life,” said Bruce Barry, a Vanderbilt University professor. “And the person he really was is not the person that was there on Saturday.”

Max Barry graduated in June from the University of Puget Sound in Tacoma, Washington and dreamed of a career in music and radio. He occasionally was a DJ for the university’s radio station.

Barry died at a private residence in Jefferson County, Colorado, near Denver, where he had recently moved. Police have said the death is not considered suspicious.

Longtime friend Tommy Prine said Max Barry had a unique warmth about him.

“He himself had a heart the size of a mountain, a free spirit much like the animals that roam this world, the stubbornness of a long winter, and a smile like sunshine breaking through a stormy cloud,” Prine said during the service. “Only a person with a force of a character like Max can leave this big of a hole in my heart, in everyone’s heart.”

Megan Barry was sworn in as Nashville’s first female mayor in September 2015 with her husband and son by her side. Max Barry bear-hugged his mom after the oath of office, sat just to her right as she gave her inaugural speech and kissed her afterward.

“Max was our beloved boy. He made us laugh and he made us crazy,” his obituary says. “We will…

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